The first reading for today's liturgy struck me so
forcefully when I first read it that I just have to share it in this blog.
It's a reading from the second book of the Maccabees
(2Mc 6: 18 – 31). The passage tells
the story of Eleazar and his faithful adherence to God's law. Eleazar is an old
man; listen to how his age, and the markers of his age - his gray hair and his life
experience - are seen as honorable by the writer. I include here only those relevant
phrases from the entire reading that describe Eleazar in the context of his
age, as "an older".
"Eleazar was a man of advanced age and noble appearance"
"Eleazar had a noble mind, worthy of his years, worthy
of the distinction presented by his gray hair and his dignity, and worthy of
the admirable life he had lived since childhood."
Eleazar chooses death rather than defy the law:
"If I dissimulated for the sake of a brief moment of
life, they would be scandalized by me, and I would bring shame and dishonor on
my old age. If I therefore have the courage to give up my life now, I will show
myself worthy of my years, and I will leave to the young a noble example of how
to die willingly and gracefully for the sake of the holy law that we hear."
What new insights about the honor of life's later
years might we gain by reflecting on Eleazar’s conviction that only when he
shows himself ‘worthy of my years’ will he leave a worthy legacy?
Perhaps as an exercise probing our own
internal ageism, we might ask ourselves, “How often is my first impression when
seeing a person with gray hair that s/he is worthy of distinction by that very
presence of gray. What makes me want to hide my gray hair?
"Eleazar had a noble mind worthy of his
years." Do we believe, really
believe that wisdom resides within our elderly?
Is that conviction reflected in policies and daily practices? Or do we,
in effect, segregate our elders in some ways from the larger community so that
their presence and voice are not available?