Monday, March 12, 2018

LIFE IN A WHEEL CHAIR

This poem was written by Sister Janet Thielges, OSB and posted on her monastery's website.  https://sbm.osb.org   It speaks for itself and can serve as a wake-up call about some of our unconscious assumptions or biases.

Life in a Wheel Chair
I fell
and injured my back.
I can see, hear and talk
and my mind is as sharp as a whistle.
Ninety.

Wheelchairs.
Bring on changes.
They minimize visits.
“Can anyone who can’t walk, talk?”
Seems not.

Shopping. 
With companion. 
Person I knew came by. 
Greeted only my companion.
Ah well! 

Today.
A gent “gets” it.
“Did she fall?” asked a lady.
“Ask her. She can talk,” said the gent.
I’m real!

I smiled. 
It made my day. 
The wheelchair’s a helpful thing;
but I never stop being a person.
Thank you!

Janet Thielges, OSB

Wednesday, March 7, 2018

How We Use Our Words

US News and World Report writes often about nursing home-related issues.  Angela Haupt is Assistant Managing Editor of Health at U.S. News and has written a series of such articles around "Activities" in nursing homes.  I read one such article this morning in which she noted pet therapy and therapeutic cooking in some nursing homes as examples of innovative "activities".  I responded to Angela and share that letter here.

Dear Angela, 

Thank you for your articles on some of the wonderful things happening in nursing homes to make life better for those who live there and who work there. Because our choice and use of words is so important, I am asking you to reconsider your use of the words "therapy" and "therapeutic" when referencing activities in a nursing home. When one refers to pet therapy or to therapeutic cooking, it medicalizes a normal human activity. 

If I may expand, a little -- when I sit down in the evening after a hard day's work, and my cat jumps into my lap, there is a rush of endorphins and my blood pressure goes down. I am content and serene and it shows on my face.  Yet, the next morning at work I never say to my peers that I engaged in pet therapy the previous evening (!)

The same is true for other activities. Sometimes I go into the kitchen and cook or bake something just for the pure pleasure and sense of relaxation it gives me. Yet,when I share those cookies, for example, I never share them as the result of "therapeutic cooking".

Medicalizing events in a nursing home reduces elders to their medical conditions.  I know that was never your intention, and that you most assuredly learned these terms in the very nursing homes that are engaged in these innovative enrichment events. Your pen is so powerful, Angela.  I trust that you will continue to use it to transform the culture of every nursing home in our country.  Thank you!

Imelda Maurer, LNHA

Proud to be a Guide at the 2018 Pioneer Network Conference in Denver. Want to know more? Ask me or check out the Pioneer Network website:   https://www.pioneernetwork.net/conference/

Tuesday, March 6, 2018

Imagination

Karen Schoneman gifted me with a copy of her recently published book,"Working in the Light". It is a book of daily reflections, coming from the perspective that "as we move forward on our spiritual paths, we are light workers, letting God's light flow through us and out to where it is needed - in ourselves and in our world."

Last week one of the reflections was about the Tool Library in Berkeley, CA. How innovative to have a central source to borrow needed tools when they are no longer so commonly found in our own garage or our neighbor's -- if we even know our neighbors.

Karen ended her reflection with the suggestion that today we "applaud all those who are using the divine characteristics of imagination to see new solutions to problems and new ways to serve each other."

Today I applaud and thank God for all those individuals working with elders who have used and continue to use their imagination to see aging and supportive aging services in a new light. It is in this light of new understandings of aging that imagination can romp and dance like a child in the sunlight, bringing new solutions to failed and inadequate views of aging and aging services. 

This work is called transforming the culture. Culture Change.